There's a fine line between being forward and being sexually
aggressive. A man skates that line all the time, and in the end, the
woman likes it or is repulsed by it. A man skating that line is a must,
and all men hope for is that we aren't vilified if a woman isn't
interested. Rejection is something men have adapted to deal with.
Women rarely have to worry about being rejected in a direct
manner or handle the volume of rejects that a man handles daily. Women
aren't built for rejection. To reject a woman, especially if she
bluntly offers her vagina to a man, is like burning money.
We need money and to reject any amount of money no matter worth
is blasphemous, but that's if you're poor. Rich people burn money every
day because they have enough of it. Self respect is like emotional
money, and most women are rich compared to their sexual appetite which
differs from a man's self respect. Every now and then a woman's self
respect loses its value because the offers to fill her sexual appetite
run short. Like any person suffering starvation, they tend to take
matters into their own hands. Backlash can occur if a woman hasn't
estimated a man's wealth of self respect considering women have all but
cornered the market on self respect. The potato sack of rejection never
fits well on women.
Men are born into
this realm of desperation and from adolescence are taught that self
respect doesn't get you fed considering sexual appetite. Men have to
figure out self respect when it comes to relationships on our own as we
get older. Women are taught self respect out the womb and have this
emotional stiff arm if you aren't giving them what they want to see and
hear. Women have to teach themselves about their own sexual appetite as
they get older and have to be ok with losing a little self respect to
fulfill this hunger.
My thoughts on
this arose when I was approached by a sexually starved woman who did not
take into account of my wealth of self respect. The role reversal was;
a woman came at me with sexual aggression, so I emotionally stiff armed
her. The hunger inside this woman was so strong she flat out offers
her vagina as payment to fulfill her own sexual appetite. Now as a man,
my natural instinct was to accept the offer because I'm the one
normally wearing the metaphorical potato sack, but my sexual appetite is
already being fulfilled so I in turn burned money by denying this
woman. I wasted a beer. I threw food away and said fuck those starving
kids in Africa.
Instead of her
taking it like a man and just accepting that I wasn't interested, she
and her friend began to say that maybe I had a small penis, and that's
why I didn't want to have sex with her. I found this frustrating at
first and later on hilarious; because a hungry mouth is hungry no matter
how big it is, and I just wasn't. This refusal of responsibility on her
part that all men take into account is an awakening that some women
aren't ready for. Most women will blame the man for not wanting sex
with them and say things like a small penis is the cause but the fact
is; I'm emotionally rich and don't need your potato sack dummy.
First that logic of "something is wrong with you for not wanting
me" is an arrogance that most women have. Second it's a hilarious
notion that would look stupid on a man, as well. Picture a man being
rejected and then saying it's because your vaginas too small. As if
those are the only factors of why someone wouldn't be interested in
someone else.
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